Road to self(soul)

In conversation with myself, I find myself  getting immersed but I  often end up in complaining about  elements that haven't been very nice in my  life... I  love chatting with myself and often realise I keep caring a lot about my external  self, my body image, my professional image and my humane image... Ultimately it was all image... Image itself is the way one is being viewed, judged or perceived by self and others... This image issue was that dragon which never left me since  childhood and I  somewhere felt alienated within my own skin...

Time and again, this realization that I  need to be more in love with  myself, more  indulged into meeting  that interesting  real  me crept up and my efforts began in that direction ... I would walk a few steps and get lost... This happens every time I go on self search...

I  understand every destination has various routes.... The route I chose was in compliance with my personality and emotions and that was to reach myself via souls around me... I was very keen to touch  lives to search self and though it was a beautiful experience  I also noticed its limitations... In this process.. I would start imagining those souls as my destination and would later get disappointed as if its a mirage in the desert...

I can never and will never stop  connecting to beautiful people  around  me, each soul has a story to say that helps me see a new direction  but I  now do understand that sometimes.. Its foolish to get  stuck  at one resting point and get drowned into those emotions....

Due to my emotional bondage in this journey, many people do come across expecting  to bring about changes in me as per their thoughts  and that itself disconnects  me with them, as each one has their own chosen road to reach their soul... Any body causing hindrance indicates the lack of respect and there is the Signal that I  need to bypass certain  speed breakers  to not disturb  my journey or move ahead taking a bit of bumpy ride  and moving in set direction....

Thus, my road to my soul  seems most tedious, most  challenging and full of frictions.... Its like.. Something which is right under our nose is the most difficult to find.... People easily  reach moon, mars, etc where as the entire universe that is within is seldom found....

Soul wish....

Soul wish....

My soul has an infant  dream
A foolish yet a secret wish,
Living like a restless  being
Like breathing  without water some fish.

Some with looks, some with  wit
Nothing helped my inner self lit,
I  do not know if my other part
Is restless too on being apart...

My unexplored  paradise within
No one has its magic seen,
It is waiting  for its charming  prince
Peacefully  on his shoulders  to lean.

Many travelled till the door
As if glancing standing at shore,
No one could dare to drown in that sea
For pure a soul  can only drown within....

My means to merge deep
To gain  a spiritual  high,
A journey  from sole to soul
I  want to feel complete and whole.

Transparent SELF results in peaceful SOUL ....

Transparency  is a term which only  is used to explain  kids  as opposed to  opaque.... It should be rather explained  as Absence  of  Clarity.

I get pained  to write  about  Transparency  when I  realise  that No one including  myself  is  able to adopt  that totally  in life... Once as a child and a teenager  when being transparent  often put me in dilemmas  and the shrewd  environment  would  whisper  that  this  transparency  is not  beneficial.... Probably , materially  it is the  call for the  day but is it really helping  us at depth????

It is annoying  to me when I  am asked to reflect  half truth or  when its expected  of me to do so and this feeling  makes me  more miserable  when I  put myself in the shoes of an audience  who witness half reality  and is suppose to act likewise....

I have always  vouched for complete  clarity but society  acts as an obstacle  in revelation  of an honest say.... Its not  essential  that  honesty  will always be appreciated  but selfishly  too that  is THE ingredient  to PEACE WITHIN....

Commonly people  start to give excuses and  say half truth in most cases with an inbuilt  fear that either  that Fact would be misused or will be misinterpreted  which might  dent the well made societal  image.... Thus,  lying has become a Cosmetic  to  hide the shady areas of self but it is to  be given a positive  perspective  to  encourage  truth.... If people don't judge  one another  and don't  have relationships  pre conditioned,  it can help people in start attempting  to adopt honesty....

I decided  to follow  this after facing a turbulence  within  and this path might  not  have given me great material  success but I  have built a very honest relationship  with my fellow people  a major  part which now  includes  my clients... When they approach  me with a said  issue, I  admit to them  if I  was too victimized  with such problems  at a given point  and  it has only  helped both  me and them in acceptance  and treatment  of the  problem... Its  therefore  not  wrong  to project  ourselves  as an ordinary  human with  all routine  issues.... Its a myth that  people have  carried  within  that helping professional  can never undergo  a difficult  time.... Its more of a lie, a deception  and that might add to glory but not a long lasting  impact.....

With my experience  at personal  and  professional  front, I  genuinely  insist  that  although  a tough  path to  follow , if transparent  thought  processes  are adopted it  can save people  from many future manipulations and can help in getting  trained to having  a more open  and non  judgemental personality  to  enhance relationships...

Stay peaceful, stay happy......

Spirit +Ritual =SPIRITUAL

Having attended two ceremonies side by side; one involved death and other marriage. .... both had its connection to soul..

Death involved soul departure where as marriage involved soul union but what was real was death ....I was not really sure about soul union within the marriage. ..

The astonishing facts were that both these events had lots of RITUALS involved in them.... the idea and logic which make these rituals so popular is the belief that it is essential for soul satisfaction and soul gratification. ...as I said its a BELIEF!!!!

BELIEF is the most sensitive thing for any individual and we love our beliefs even more than ourselves. .the prime example is observation of strict rules and regulations as that is the belief which will get us closer to GOD. ..Now most of us aren't really enjoying all these regulations nor do we really understand but we follow under the pressure of BELIEFS.

I need to replace this word BELIEF with yet another strong word FAITH ..Faith is a remedy to avoid or defeat FEARS .Our faith in GOD or MESSENGER OF GOD is a reflection to our degree of fear factor.

The energy in UNIVERSE is the energy in our SOUL as we are suppose to be its part in bodily form...therefore a soul out from body will be one with universal energy and that in marriage is essentially merging of two energies. ..

The Rituals followed are right from the birth until death and there after (in some cultures) is for the soul ....therefore we humans are nothing but SPIRITUAL BEINGS which means this human form thus we are blessed with should practice a ritual of soul enhancing but what is happening is only and more so at physical level which mechanically involves set of activities termed as rituals..

A ritual for spirit should be the focus on this inner self  and only the self within can help in merging this soul energy with the universal energy ...that's what we term SPIRITUAL!
Which also will guide us through the physical lives we live and towards an end that is the ULTIMATE TRUTH.

The sad aspect is that the RITUALS have become so dominant that SPIRIT IS FORGOTTEN for which all the pains are taken. Ritual performance can take a toll on people in every way as it involves a lot of physical and financial contribution but is that what is actually a SOUL NEED????

Let's ponder on this thought and understand why we follow so many things without an understanding and how can we enhance our very own self to get that spiritual content and feel blessed...

A soul is a soul. ...with or without a body...

A horror movie that reflected a soul that possessed a body for some left over vengeful desire. ...reminded me of the very fact that WE ARE ALL PRIMARILY SOULS and LATER THIS BODY. ..each religion and philosophy has repeatedly focussed the attention on this TRUTH.

What bothers me is something I understood quite late and I still wonder.....if we are souls ...whom we love or hate are also souls and we very comfortably mingle then those BODYLESS SOULS who are all around us don't much bother us too but those with whom we have had a bitter relationship and is no more physically existing we go bonkers to even accept that for a moment if they still are around and if yes with what hidden desire....

As humans when we pick on an individual we try to be winners all the while and don't hesitate to hurt millions of souls  that are our friends and family and a human..and that seldom makes us scared but the same soul without body scares us to a crazy level.....

Quite an interesting query I looked for an answer and then my guess was that probably we know that body has a limitation SOUL never has any and it is that power which can give people jitters. ..

The point we all need to understand is that why then not treat our fellow beings (the souls) with respect and don't worry about the threat as an effect of self guilt which always will have its powerful impact someday.

Do  not take souls with body for granted to make you worry about its reactions after leaving their bodies. ...

On path of humanity such fears will never affect us...
Lets follow humanity.

Story created by Eyes. ...

She looked into his eyes and felt a sweet tingle within and it was just a journey; but on departure she avoided eye contact with him to hide the silly feeling within. After all it wasn't right to fall in love at first sight was what she thought. ....

That's how a story can start....stories aren't always fictional ....there are ways and means to understand someone, like someone ;but a look of purity can totally mesmerize the soul as if it's a message given by the universe.

Science never explained the expressions as a function of eyes . But eyes see things at a physical level and SPEAK VOLUMES at soul level.When some who lack oratory skills are one of the types who can express exact emotions via eyes; its for the readers to read right.

Love and pain are most commonly expressed emotions but these are also most commonly felt.

Its an entire world of unspoken words yet expressed all and thrilling to communicate with those treasured within souls when no word will ever mean the same.

Share your experiences of eye to eye expression to enhance this fact.

Transpersonal Psychology

Spiritual Psychology By Ms. Kinjal Pandya HELP TA…: http://youtu.be/ifkbW1brxVI

Soul Goal or sole goal????

There are times I am forced to think as to what is it that Man is craving for????? 

Is it Money? ??? Sex???? Health ????  Family?????

All answers can be appropriate time to time but the question is what is the underlying element that is derived OR what is the force to RUN  behind or chase these ....

the answer is ............PEACE!!!!!!

How do we define this so called simple yet most rare intangible object PEACE?????

Peace in layman terms means " the feeling after accomplishment of set goals and targets ....absence of ANXIETY "

Why do people say "MAY HIS/HER SOUL REST IN PEACE "

One logic that explains this is that while ALIVE the soul is usually RESTLESS....
Thus why that HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIP ,Etc couldn't help in experiencing the eternal PEACE?????