Road to self(soul)

In conversation with myself, I find myself  getting immersed but I  often end up in complaining about  elements that haven't been very nice in my  life... I  love chatting with myself and often realise I keep caring a lot about my external  self, my body image, my professional image and my humane image... Ultimately it was all image... Image itself is the way one is being viewed, judged or perceived by self and others... This image issue was that dragon which never left me since  childhood and I  somewhere felt alienated within my own skin...

Time and again, this realization that I  need to be more in love with  myself, more  indulged into meeting  that interesting  real  me crept up and my efforts began in that direction ... I would walk a few steps and get lost... This happens every time I go on self search...

I  understand every destination has various routes.... The route I chose was in compliance with my personality and emotions and that was to reach myself via souls around me... I was very keen to touch  lives to search self and though it was a beautiful experience  I also noticed its limitations... In this process.. I would start imagining those souls as my destination and would later get disappointed as if its a mirage in the desert...

I can never and will never stop  connecting to beautiful people  around  me, each soul has a story to say that helps me see a new direction  but I  now do understand that sometimes.. Its foolish to get  stuck  at one resting point and get drowned into those emotions....

Due to my emotional bondage in this journey, many people do come across expecting  to bring about changes in me as per their thoughts  and that itself disconnects  me with them, as each one has their own chosen road to reach their soul... Any body causing hindrance indicates the lack of respect and there is the Signal that I  need to bypass certain  speed breakers  to not disturb  my journey or move ahead taking a bit of bumpy ride  and moving in set direction....

Thus, my road to my soul  seems most tedious, most  challenging and full of frictions.... Its like.. Something which is right under our nose is the most difficult to find.... People easily  reach moon, mars, etc where as the entire universe that is within is seldom found....

Spiritual Love...

Spirit... The very reason , I  am able to write this blog, the very reason  you can read this article and for all the  reasons to reason out...

I was  wondering if all of us can feel things to the core and if we do know what can those feelings do???? Spirit which is the root to our existence  is governed by the experiences it goes through and is constantly  striving  to make we humans acquire  that ultimate  truth that we are indeed SPIRITUAL  BEINGS WHO ARE HERE TO HAVE HUMAN EXPERIENCE...

While  experiencing  human birth, we experience love as a prime ingredient to take us to  that understanding where no one is different  from  other.. We are all connected to each other via an invisible  thread to which we have our own formed similarities and attachments... Some in particular  gets  attached  to  help us in bringing  about a deeper spiritual awareness  and that person , that  individual  becomes the spiritual love of ones life...

Its easy to give names to relationships people form, its a binding to follow  rules and  regulations to those societal  relationships  but those nameless  ties people get involved  in are  those which occur to humans in an unexpected  way, with unexpected people and its weird in every way  but seems most deep... It is these connections which can leave a deep impact on ones life and help in understanding the universal love which is  the core truth.

In my professional  practice, I  get many couples who are quite  possessive  about each other, people try  being who they are not , not to bring about a change which they want but for proving their worthiness to their partners.... Change is life.. If change is natural, its spiritual  but if its imposed and feared, its a caged love, its a caged relationship....  We are here into close knit relationships  to help each other lift up spiritually  but dominance  in any relationship  will only cause chaos which will give birth to rebellious  souls at a later stage...

We, as humans  are strict followers of scriptures and religious beliefs  but we do not realize the underlying  intentions  of all these... None of it teaches to hold people into handcuffs and slave them  as per rules and regulations  and norms... In Fact, these were formed for a systematic  way of  living  under ready acceptance  of people around thus, the ACCEPTANCE  as a fact is killed somewhere and every act humans do is services  towards ego satisfaction in society .... Where is the self acceptance  and pleasure  at a core level vanished?????

Love, is the prime ingredient of any relationship and love by itself is a free spirit... It cannot be caged, imposed or destroyed... It is eternal  in its way, it cannot have a method , it is free willed... But we seldom have faith in that... Because we lack faith in ourselves... If its love, it has to there, forms might change, feel cannot.

I, try  telling  people, if you love  someone  so  deeply, so intensely, don't  hold them into your clutches... They would  feel suffocated... Rather, love them  let them love you the way you are  and if you have experienced  spirituality  with this love, it is immaterial  whether they fall in love with someone  else as, they WILL WITNESS YOUR PRESENCE even if they  are with other  people.... This is the purity, strength and magic of spiritual  love....

Its difficult  to love someone in a  manner, to let them go somewhere else, but its a beautiful  feeling  to let your love find love and finally feel YOU wherever they go... That's  Love....

It requires  a deep connect with self and an extreme  level of spiritual quotient  to fall in love like that....

Love yourself to love all....

Transpersonal Psychology

Spiritual Psychology By Ms. Kinjal Pandya HELP TA…: http://youtu.be/ifkbW1brxVI