Transparency is a term which only is used to explain kids as opposed to opaque.... It should be rather explained as Absence of Clarity.
I get pained to write about Transparency when I realise that No one including myself is able to adopt that totally in life... Once as a child and a teenager when being transparent often put me in dilemmas and the shrewd environment would whisper that this transparency is not beneficial.... Probably , materially it is the call for the day but is it really helping us at depth????
It is annoying to me when I am asked to reflect half truth or when its expected of me to do so and this feeling makes me more miserable when I put myself in the shoes of an audience who witness half reality and is suppose to act likewise....
I have always vouched for complete clarity but society acts as an obstacle in revelation of an honest say.... Its not essential that honesty will always be appreciated but selfishly too that is THE ingredient to PEACE WITHIN....
Commonly people start to give excuses and say half truth in most cases with an inbuilt fear that either that Fact would be misused or will be misinterpreted which might dent the well made societal image.... Thus, lying has become a Cosmetic to hide the shady areas of self but it is to be given a positive perspective to encourage truth.... If people don't judge one another and don't have relationships pre conditioned, it can help people in start attempting to adopt honesty....
I decided to follow this after facing a turbulence within and this path might not have given me great material success but I have built a very honest relationship with my fellow people a major part which now includes my clients... When they approach me with a said issue, I admit to them if I was too victimized with such problems at a given point and it has only helped both me and them in acceptance and treatment of the problem... Its therefore not wrong to project ourselves as an ordinary human with all routine issues.... Its a myth that people have carried within that helping professional can never undergo a difficult time.... Its more of a lie, a deception and that might add to glory but not a long lasting impact.....
With my experience at personal and professional front, I genuinely insist that although a tough path to follow , if transparent thought processes are adopted it can save people from many future manipulations and can help in getting trained to having a more open and non judgemental personality to enhance relationships...
Stay peaceful, stay happy......
