CHAKRA - VYUHA..... (MAZE of LIFE)

CHAKRA - VYUHA.....

CHAKRA....  CIRCLE / CIRCULAR
VYUHA..... FORMATION

Chakravyuha was a circular  formation... A strategic  war  formation  used in epic Mahabharata  by Dhronacharya.... To trap warriors during the war....

I immediately  could think of a circular maze which is often used in theme parks across the world to confuse people with their way  out.... And

My very different perspective  could make me relate to both CHAKRAVYUHA and MAZE... To the VISCOUS  circle of  LIFE....

The faiths which believe in BIRTHS AND REBIRTHS.... can probably  relate to this theory of getting trapped into the cycle....

At times.... When we try and  figure out our certain  habits, thoughts, behavior  which are neither genetic nor environmentally  influenced  but still is a strong  trait in us which we blame it on our INNATE PERSONALITY... this innate feature we probably  have learnt or gathered while traveling  so many lives  and  thus  is reflected in us.....

Basically, we all try with our focus and passion to  release ourselves  from this maze and  some new players keep enjoying  the game and wandering  within the maze....

The lessons thus learnt in our lives are those landmarks which should help us take different  route with an attempt to seek that ultimate  freedom of our soul.... The alertness is thus required  to take life lessons as marked wrong route..... So that  we don't  get stuck there again and  again...

But.... What really  happens isn't as simple as a game of maze...we are humans who only  use our given smartness to hurt, harm and win over  people banging  into  us while traveling into the maze and we totally  forget that our prime motive is to get out of that  for liberation....

Humans, get either into tiffs or emotionally attached to the other players and are stuck there... Settled there... Rather, as an aware candidate, one needs to be on constant  move and find the way out themselves... En-route if they find another such  alert individual who has had his/her part of experience of some different  wrong routes... Thus, such  people as soul mates can join  hands to their ultimate  destination.... It is but not  mandatory to seek a mate.... If one has to they do  meet on life journey but  individual  search should  never stop...

Like... Abhimanyu.... The soul  does  know its way out of this charavyuha.... Only  thing essential is to maintain  alertness and focus on the goal.... Rest we will be guided by our souls...

Lets enjoy our life game....

Friends with Benefits.... (relationship)

Starts with being an acquaintance, to  a friend  and can  easily  lead  to being  FRIENDS  WITH  BENEFITS...

For  those  of you who are unaware  of this  term called  FRIENDS WITH  BENEFITS (FWB), It is a friendship  where  you also have courtship  without  commitment....

In many societies, this term can come as a shocker  where  as some societies  have accepted  this openly..... I  am  not  here to discuss  what  FWB is all about but its psychological  implications  in nutshell....

The important  thing  to  remember  here is an individual  perception of sex, love and friendship.... Each of these  terms  have  a dictionary  meaning  but do all  of us essentially  take it that  way? For  example, a couple  in love can  have  sex  to make love, to  express love..... A person  with an acute  physical  urge will  indulge  into sex as a mere biological  need, an Indian  married  couple takes it as a duty, etc.... As per Osho, sex  is that internal realization  or feel which a person  can  possibly  experience  and feel at the blissful  peak and thus is that  feel compared to the one which people get during  the oneness experienced  during meditation  and  this is  essentially  a soulful experience.....

If that holds true for many people, is feeling  of oneness possible for  these people while  they have physical  intimacy  with many  around.. ..... I  doubt...

One fact that  I  understand  is that  sexual  need  is both physical  and emotional  but which  one is more prominent  at  a time is the question  which is an answer too...

A marriage  thus should be more an open friendly  relationship  with each other which can serve the purpose  well but  the catch  in every  so called relationship  is the POSSESSIVENESS  and EMOTIONAL  INSECURITIES.... and marriage  might have maximum  as its a societal  bond which is more of  a social  status.....
Given such  limitations, more and  more  people  are trying  to fulfill  their  sexual  needs without  any commitments..... But as I  quoted  earlier  sexual  need can be both purely  physical  or emotional  or both and if its a professional  sex worker  there are no emotions  involved  what so ever and if its a lover  there are many unreasonable  emotions  involved  too..... And there the concept  of FWB served the purpose for many who find a marginal mixture  of both  the ingredients  in helping  people  get intimate  without  any  strings attached.....

Well, this seemed like  such an ideal way to operate  that people following  this fail to notice  some  important  things surrounding  such  arrangements.... Like:

One such relationship can make  an overall  perception  of all friends  who could be included in such arrangements.... Which  is not a healthy  sign

Other effects  being, there are  great  chances that  later either one can get emotionally  insecured for the  other...

If both have an excellent  physical  compatibility, and  they  decide to  tie knots  on  that  basis  alone.... Other aspects  may  cause  trouble  in future...

And a slightly  different  but according  to me the most difficult  kind of situation  will be where A HEALTHY, HEARTY, OPEN, EXCELLENT FRIENDSHIP  which was not  endangered  with any issues  can go UGLY by SEXUAL  interference  therein.... So, a greed  to  get physical  pleasure  from  friends  can destroy  a heartiest  friendship  and that is more disastrous.... As friends  are defined  as those  who  are not judgemental  about you  and this aspect (of being  non judgemental)   is difficult  to achieve  in any relationship  even  in FWB.....

So  folks, Think before  you  can walk that extra mile to derive an additional  pleasure  out of an amazing  friendship ...