Take the Charge but get discharged too...

WHY AM I VICTIMIZED????

WHY  DID  YOU  TAKE ME FOR GRANTED???

WHY THIS HAD TO HAPPEN WITH  ME???

These are  some  few self statements  people make often when they experience a distressed  situation.... Not that  anyone  so  far is spared  of any undesired experience  but well it  is a part of this  clay  self  we are living in and a role we play in this  drama called LIFE....

It is the easiest to POINT  A FINGER... right at our dispersal.... No much preparation  needed... Anything we face that is negative  we are spontaneous at blaming  people, place, fate but we seldom peep into self and something called as innate personality.....

People and pranks are static, only faces change  and situations  change, we get victimized  as we  fail to understand  why are we falling prey to it??? Sometimes... Or rather  many times it is not even intended  to attack us but we fall prey  to blind moves and this  is a very  typical  situation  where an inner world  of an individual  is  not strong  enough to handle  that.

It is easy  to  use terminologies  like SORTED  SELF.... but humans  can  try  to become  Zen, which they  can  after a serious  try  but EMOTIONAL  TURBULENCE is so dynamic  that IT'S  AN ONGOING  process to ACHIEVE  a ZEN state.... Well, these  are  possible for those who internalize , many of us who don't are almost devastated with a slight emotional  low...

So, when I  get  questions like what is a permanent  solution to feeling  high.... Actually its is a simple but Zen term...
ACCEPTANCE... and along with that TAKE CHARGE...

TAKING CHARGE IS...  Understanding  the way we are  wired to perceive  things based  on our different  factors... It is this work which  can make  a huge difference in management of self at that  moment  and future moments of any disturbances....

The process involves  these steps;

Focus on self as an object or goal...

Reconsider the emotional  perception of an event at initial stage  and your individual  state of mind  at that point...

The visions  or expectations  that was developed  due to that  initial  perception  has to be  questioned  and to be transformed into reality... This  stage is where  most  of us get stuck  and feel helpless  as MIND is a very stubborn  child in terms of Emotional  Intelligence and holds  itself  firm and not  change with changing  phases...
This acceptance  is a tedious  job but most important  contributing  factor  in self  growth..

Last  but not  the least.... Never feel that you will never  ever encounter something similar again as life can keep popping up with situation we hate the most till we learn to deal with it  nicely....

So... Do not crib but take charge to help yourself  and discharge  at times from everything to find your true inner self... As ultimate  healing is self dealing..... As a smooth  process...

Love and live
Take the charge and  smiles to give....

Divinity is everywhere..... (cultivate the vision to view it, feel it)

Dear Readers,

Today, it was a major internal debate when I  struggled through the process of understanding the path to divinity... I come across  many enlightened  youngsters who have gained quite some self realizations and have strengthened themselves to stand by their decision which aren't  supported by society... Like not getting married or staying in live in relationships for purely  physical  and emotional  needs without a life long commitment  or tying knot but not in the need to procreate.... These people are worth the applaud as they have got the courage to take the stand to their conviction.

I belong to liberal  thoughts and  I seldom judge these young hearts, it takes  courage  to stick to the wants based on each individual  personality. It shows that these people  are clear  about themselves and are peak in awareness  which is a task  many  people don't  even know of and die after living like machines..

Most of these people who take tough stands have an excellent  SPIRITUAL QUOTIENT  and that  is  significant to their divine growth. It surprises me at times when I  wonder, I  was no naive  at that age but nevertheless, I  like my slow  baby steps  towards my SPIRITUAL  life.

The diversities that raise conflicts  are into the path people choose to follow in this journey. I  am probably heading  from a background where humans were given utmost  importance  not for their so called caste, creed, religion  or  communities  but they being humans... I  connect to people very quickly  and its  a pleasure  I experience in meeting  different  people as each has something to contribute in my growth. The sad element  which I personally  experience  in meeting  these people with bubbling energy is that they are in their own way living  in a bubble. It is amazing  to live in a self formed bubble until it gets badly pricked by external  environment.  The generation that is so  vibrant, so intelligent  and dynamic is getting  wasted  only because of their low tolerance  levels and denial issues.

The confidence which made them think  practically and  stand by their  thoughts slowly turned  them into arrogant  ones who can condemn the wrongs  around  but wouldn't  contribute  towards making it right...

Its again a universal  law where if dislike and intolerance of realities around aren't accepted in the right spirit, it might never  let you feel happy  in the space given  to  you.

It works something  like this, after deep Introspection  when life in its totality should be well understood  to reach an acceptance  level of why things operate the way they do. It is never a one man job to bring about a universal  change but it definitely  can give  a kick start  to  help others join in if we  wish to bring about a positive  change in the  society. To start  micro level work to see difference at macro level, it is very important  that we as individuals do not even start  priding over spiritual quotient  we have acquired as that itself is a big hindrance to further growth....

Its  similarities that need  to be considered  to start loving everyone and not the differences in even mindsets which can only distance us from humanity... This distance is an obstacle to the divine... Think about it....

Open minds matter more than open eyes

World has indeed come closer...
With globalization everything  is movable  from one place to another  without hassle  and  there are better chances for cultural  exchanges and humanity  enhancements  if this very opportunity  of globalization  is well utilized....

Every few months,  be it a long weekend  or during school  vacation, I find everyone  around  going  either overseas or visiting  different  states  in the  same country. This is quite a different  way to spend  time in INDIAN  CONTEXT  where primitive  mentality  was to visit native place and relatives  to  strengthen  the family  bonds  and likewise  we were  well consumed into and around  our own cultures and people.

With world becoming  a smaller place each day with Internet  connecting people from all over and groups  based on interest levels, it has become an easier affair  to make  choices  that clearly  suit  our needs.. Needs being financial, physical, mental, cultural  or spiritual...

This transformation  should have been a boon to humanity but alas.. Has Somewhere diminished  human values with a narrower  vision.... The broader  the perspective , the  more acceptance of various  cultures; is the  need to seek humanity and essentially should be given top most  priority  but what is devastating  is that  with more and more enhancements  our minds  are getting  narrower  and  rigid....

The very reason that  ancient  believers  would want to visit  the world during  their  spiritual  journey  is have a better understanding  of  self , more  introspective   and  more practical  way to learn the art of mastering  self. This easy benefit  today is misused widely to only pamper self  with  material  needs and carry  a stamp of highly travelled  individual...

With world at our  disposal, it can  serve as a wonderful  opportunity  to open up our minds that were rigid with many imposed beliefs  and thoughts  and there  by allow to view  things  with wider vision and enhance  self within...

The sad aspect  is that all this seldom happens and  I  witness it closely when I  find people troubled  with their own inner belief systems  and are supposedly  one of those fortunate  ones to having seen  this world  largely...

These lovely  individuals who have enjoyed the beauty of this world with their  open eyes unfortunately  couldn't  understand  the wide inner world  only because  their minds were closed....

Its very important  to learn  the  technique  of  opening  up mind  to emerge as a balanced individual....

Its strange that  generations  have passed away by holding  on to imposed  belief  systems  only  because  the  fear  of loosing out the community  support is so huge... There are  only  very few  selected  ones who  have the courage  to accept  the wide inner world  and  follow that  path within which is insightful  and satisfying  to ensure eradication  of numerous  self inflicting  issues  that serves no good....

Thus, with a huge population  traveling, migrating  and being involved  in world wide affairs, lets not close  the inner vision or the third  eye while  appreciating  the external  beauties  of world..... We ultimately  dwell in our inner selves therefore, its important to OPEN MINDS to enjoy  the beauty of this  WIDE INNER WORLD.....

Let's spread smiles....

Flawless is like fairy tale!!!!!

Flaw????  "Nah, I  don't  have any..... "
Well , how many of us have gracefully  accepted  this....  Let's  not talk about how  bad or harmful is that  flaw, the  truth remains  that  each one  of us has one quality that is NOT GOOD....

This being a fact, the human race using their inborn  abilities  to think and argue is excellent at covering  up and the result  being we all end up living in a superficial  world  created by us.....

There is this fearful and coward self of ours that  believes in dressing up our  flaws so as to remain protected from attackers who would misuse this against  us and benefitting  themselves.... Well, to this endless effort  of covering  up said flaws  are a major  WASTE as no one has ever been successful  in keeping up that  perfect  image intact lifetime..... To  give a serious  example  is none other than all those great  men who  have selflessly  worked towards a social goal too are ripped off  when their single flaw is surfaced LATER......

Having  said this, will  it not be better to self judge and accept  all those negative  traits so as to have  an enough awareness  to work towards its improvisation....

This was pertaining  to self, let's  talk  of family  and close  friends..... "oops.... Never..... My family  is seldom  wrong or is naturally  the best ever...."
Its great to have high regards but most of us get blindly attached to it and end  up living  a life  in denial  mode..... In an effort  to safeguard  our people  from  others  judgemental  views we too get into a superficial  image of those near and dear ones and spend  our entire life  in covering our  family  and friends  as we clearly  ASSOCIATE THEIR FLAWS being  a black mark on SELF..... Thus, it is no act of greatness to keep up an perfect  made up  image  of people associated  with us, it is in the  end  all a very SELFISH ACT, as acceptance  of family  and friends  flaw would hamper self image too and thus  the whole  effort  in saving that  IMAGE.....

I come across  every second  individual  who is on high alert to act defensive  in self presentation and many have died  in those  notions that we (me and my family  is  GOD  s best creation) ... Well,  let's  see a broader perspective .... The very fact that  one would  want  to defend  either self, family , friends  or community, religion, country, etc means  that rather  than  working  towards self improvisation, we are more  keen and  using all our resources  in proving ourselves  Best....

To end this controversial  topic, none of us are Perfect,  Flaw is Fact...... Therefore, acceptance  can only  serve as a stepping  stone  towards  betterment  and DEFENSIVE attitude can only  deteriorate  us further....

Choice is ours.....