Flaw???? "Nah, I don't have any..... "
Well , how many of us have gracefully accepted this.... Let's not talk about how bad or harmful is that flaw, the truth remains that each one of us has one quality that is NOT GOOD....
This being a fact, the human race using their inborn abilities to think and argue is excellent at covering up and the result being we all end up living in a superficial world created by us.....
There is this fearful and coward self of ours that believes in dressing up our flaws so as to remain protected from attackers who would misuse this against us and benefitting themselves.... Well, to this endless effort of covering up said flaws are a major WASTE as no one has ever been successful in keeping up that perfect image intact lifetime..... To give a serious example is none other than all those great men who have selflessly worked towards a social goal too are ripped off when their single flaw is surfaced LATER......
Having said this, will it not be better to self judge and accept all those negative traits so as to have an enough awareness to work towards its improvisation....
This was pertaining to self, let's talk of family and close friends..... "oops.... Never..... My family is seldom wrong or is naturally the best ever...."
Its great to have high regards but most of us get blindly attached to it and end up living a life in denial mode..... In an effort to safeguard our people from others judgemental views we too get into a superficial image of those near and dear ones and spend our entire life in covering our family and friends as we clearly ASSOCIATE THEIR FLAWS being a black mark on SELF..... Thus, it is no act of greatness to keep up an perfect made up image of people associated with us, it is in the end all a very SELFISH ACT, as acceptance of family and friends flaw would hamper self image too and thus the whole effort in saving that IMAGE.....
I come across every second individual who is on high alert to act defensive in self presentation and many have died in those notions that we (me and my family is GOD s best creation) ... Well, let's see a broader perspective .... The very fact that one would want to defend either self, family , friends or community, religion, country, etc means that rather than working towards self improvisation, we are more keen and using all our resources in proving ourselves Best....
To end this controversial topic, none of us are Perfect, Flaw is Fact...... Therefore, acceptance can only serve as a stepping stone towards betterment and DEFENSIVE attitude can only deteriorate us further....
Choice is ours.....
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