I can LAUGH all my life on jokes sick jokes as well as intellectual ones... I am sure many of us wouldn't mind that....
I tried to figure out that why people eventually only crave company of those who can make them laugh...
Laughing makes us feel rejuvenated instantly and that actually helps us get back to face serious life challenges with more zest. I truly love and adore those with that streak who can lighten the environment by their witty humor and jokes...
Every moment in life we can either choose to pick a humorous side of a situation or a serious side... People who have a personality to portray themselves as very sensible, intelligent usually do not appreciate and entertain jokes as they feel its murdering the productive serious moments but the truth is to attain seriousness we are self sufficient... All we need is our thoughts and associated worry... There appears a very very serious moment... But to get happier and feel lighter we need someone who can skillfully and at times unintentionally help getting us out from that zone...
Jokes are also highly depended on the thinking ability of the person, intellectual capacity, etc thus here it is like walking on a tight rope if the receivers aren't at par with the humour pouring minds ...
In nutshell, not only females like guys who can make them laugh as in INDIAN scenario females are expected to not laugh loudly too.. Thus secretly they admire guys who can help them in bringing out that naughty element out from them.... But all individuals prefer staying in company of those with a humorous element...
I, never fulfilled the requirements of an ideal Indian Girl, and lived by my attitude (as much as I could;) thus I would chill around with people who could make me laugh my heart out and my mom surely objected that to which I still have a non convincing approach... But as I started to speak up light heartedly around, I realised people in general love to feel lighter and not end up feeling burdened with environmental stress....
Its, therefore a strong personality trait to have a sense of humor , which shouldn't be judged otherwise by labeling such people as devoid of feelings and seriousness, in fact these people have an entire different side to them which is very intense, compassionate and sensitive...
Thus... Its not essential to make every issue a matter of life and death .. Lets laugh at routine issues, its OKAY to laugh at our problems... It surely doesn't eliminate the problem area but will help HEALTH being a little less affected in the process...
Its a free tonic, a free mood uplifting pill.. To laugh it out and CHILL...
Take care
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