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Thursday, July 7, 2016

Law of Expectation (Universal law of life)

Universal law of life  # 5
Law of Expectation......

We all start  forming our Life Expectation  from either the way we believe  in Ourselves or the Environment... Experiences and Environmental  factors  do influence  our expectations  about ourselves  but majorly  it is our own self developed  thought process which decides what we get.....

After being judged  by  people around we create a self image  which mostly  is based upon others views about US. I  mentioned  in my last  topic that  I  did undergo severe  self esteem issues  but now that I  realize  that  heart of hearts I did know that  since I  never intend bad for others, I do not carry negatives within me as far as life events  are concerned.

Well, life is all about good and bad but being pessimistic  about self has a great impact on such events happening  in REAL. A little reality check  helps in self improvement  when conduct and efforts are concerned, so  it isn't  essential  to keep having  self praise all the while but a futuristic  tool to overall shape up our life, its important  to expect  BEST to happen  to us and all that has happened  till now;how it has helped to bring out the BEST in us is what should be aimed at.

As children, we all dream of an excellent , ideal life but others opinion start  dominating our own expectations  from our life to which many of us become negative  in their  approach  and lead such stressful lives..

To quote  a simple  example  here, I often come across  people  who have trusting  issues. These people somewhere feel everyone around them is there to cheat them in one way  or the other. Thus, they  either form rules if they can or bargain  and love to be felt  that  they have outsmarted the opposite  person. The truth  here  is such  people  win around in routine  situation  and get big time dumped  in life  where things  aren't  in their control  but will not start to think in a different  manner that, why do we expect  people to cheat? If they do, they will  face it in one or other  way, why  we take the stress????  And if we are cheated by xyz, we might also  get unexpected  benefits  from a different  source to get  compensated...

A simple understanding, life is balanced ... We all get what we give... If not physical  even mental negatives and positives play an important  role in giving it back to us... Thus, EXPECT POSITIVE  THINGS, POSITIVE  PEOPLE  to Experience  that  in LIFE....

EXPECTATION  =  EXPERIENCE..... Try  this...