IDEAL GROWTH..... What is it?

We all are born to grow...

From a foetus, we start getting our human form  till 9 months  in mother's  womb... After that our growth in external environment starts and growth continues....

Even while in womb, every moment we are growing  physically and mentally and with science advancing each growth is monitored  too.... After reaching adulthood our physical growth ceases and we still continue  growing  mentally....

Physical  growth has well defined approximations but mental growth is immeasurable.... Like the way we changed in physical form during physical growth years somewhere mental growth was happening too... We have been so conscious of physical growth that we haven't  really known or understood the depth of mental growth... We have only  groomed our mental growth to help our physical  needs to be fulfilled....

Examples of mental growth are... Education, mental abilities to enable logical thinking, using brain functions to enhance in career, etc etc...  GROWTH HAS TO BRING CHANGE...
It us said that Growth is Optional  Change is inevitable.....

We often appreciate growth but we dread change... Why????
Change is a shift in attitude, habits, behaviour.... And a change in all three is a PARADIGM SHIFT.... individual  change in Habit or Behavior or Attitude  can be a result of any episode occurred which has been a lesson to learn , sometimes voluntary  change is observed for achieving a goal but the real growth that can change ones life completely for good is the Spiritual Growth.....

This growth is not an uplift in mental abilities  but this is a growth that  has happened with  Growth in EMOTIONAL QUOTIENT  combined with our inbuilt INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENT (which is a natural  one)....
By increase in mental abilities  and reaching a career  height will still not ensure that Inner Growth which basically we humans seek....

We are gifted with intelligence  as a unique quality, emotions even animals have inbuilt  thus we aren't only here to increase the productivity of this IQ and only roll into comforts, we humans need to grow spiritually  by developing  HUMANE Qualities of letting go of minor issues, sharing, caring, non interfering  and non judgemental, etc to value human beings as spiritual  beings and raise our spiritual standards.... This is the ultimate  growth  we are looking for but we get stuck in only  visible  growths in terms of material  gains...

Lets grow within and change just happens as this  change is what  we can never have until we have matured souls.... God bless us all!!!

Coming next....

A kick start at developing  spiritual growth.....

Unique ways to see the changes. ..

Change is the Core Element for GROWTH. ...

We are all aware of this fact but we can rarely accept changes.

Change can be mentally and /or physically but each has its importance in given areas. Children change both the ways to turn into an adult. An adult changes mentally time to time as he matures and we do make physical changes in our environment to upgrade our lifestyles. ...soo it thus is an universal truth that growth requires changes.

The above mentioned changes seem normal but at physical level its more acceptable than at mental and emotional levels.

These internal changes that happen within a person often has an impact on his /her surroundings as in relationships.

It's the stillness people live with when relationship s are concerned as we feel that we need to be in control of the said relationship and thus the change shaken our inner selves. But......if an individual grows there are bound to be changes in that person .How can a person not change as life is a teacher with its varied experience s that has to influence each one to further growth.
The issue usually is when only one grows at a different speed as compared to the other that they dont find themselves on the same page and there the flexibility to that changed individual becomes challenging.

These are some commonly seen changes we find hard to accept let's have a different perspective to these:

1. A child growing up to take independent decision often make parents worried as the protective parent within is always insecured ... try and make yourself recollect the same old days you had; also as you have learnt from your life let your child learn that way too.
Also by letting him learn by committing mistakes he is finally taking the responsibility of his /her life.

2. Old parents when get attention seeking adopt the same strategy they did when we demanded attention as kids. ....distracting them to their unrealised dreams and hobbies as they now also listen to your suggestions thus they cannot deny.
It works as giving them happy moments without hurting them.

3. Relationships that started at a same age like friends , spouses etc should try and grow together or if not then if other ones growth is respected then there is acceptability maintained in the relationship.

Let's try doing this....might work....