Desire.. Less... Nooo.. Desireless

We are born  DESIRE LESS and what are we converted into is DESIRES DESIRES DESIRES.....

At each milestone, there are new desires  put into us either by our environment or  by  our knowledge  about things.... The mind is trained to keep seeking something or the other....

All our life we devote our total self in satisfaction of these desires but in real we all ultimately  seek that liberation of our souls... Liberation which we are looking at is to an extent restricted with our  bodily  needs which  give a feel good effect and we are so consumed into these that this body can lead us to liberation is something we have totally forgotten...

Mind.... Can either be rejoicing over the pleasurable moments that have passed or those it has been thinking of... Thus, the  pain vs gain is the only thing that is captured by this mind... Therefore, sleeping, intoxicating, enjoying food, sex, entertainment which puts off those pain and gain episodes are immensely looked forward to....

More and  more that we want to indulge into these more of restlessness  and anxiety  we are struck with....

Its that moment, we all are deep within  waiting for when we are void of any DESIRES...., THAT IS THE MOMENT OF FEELING  FREE.... DETACHED....

To feel free, to detach, its important to unlearn  the  shrewd  tactics of this world, to save that fake image and to be what  you were...

As humans, we ought to fall in love, but love with possession is what harms  this peace and the beauty of love... Its great to love, but its equally  sad to hold on to what you love....

We all desire to be loved.. How many of us have desired to SILENTLY LOVE... The day we can just LET OURSELVES  ONLY LOVE... we are reaching out to our own freedom  of no bondage, no cage...

Its not  a bad idea to try loving without the condition of being  loved....

IDEAL GROWTH..... What is it?

We all are born to grow...

From a foetus, we start getting our human form  till 9 months  in mother's  womb... After that our growth in external environment starts and growth continues....

Even while in womb, every moment we are growing  physically and mentally and with science advancing each growth is monitored  too.... After reaching adulthood our physical growth ceases and we still continue  growing  mentally....

Physical  growth has well defined approximations but mental growth is immeasurable.... Like the way we changed in physical form during physical growth years somewhere mental growth was happening too... We have been so conscious of physical growth that we haven't  really known or understood the depth of mental growth... We have only  groomed our mental growth to help our physical  needs to be fulfilled....

Examples of mental growth are... Education, mental abilities to enable logical thinking, using brain functions to enhance in career, etc etc...  GROWTH HAS TO BRING CHANGE...
It us said that Growth is Optional  Change is inevitable.....

We often appreciate growth but we dread change... Why????
Change is a shift in attitude, habits, behaviour.... And a change in all three is a PARADIGM SHIFT.... individual  change in Habit or Behavior or Attitude  can be a result of any episode occurred which has been a lesson to learn , sometimes voluntary  change is observed for achieving a goal but the real growth that can change ones life completely for good is the Spiritual Growth.....

This growth is not an uplift in mental abilities  but this is a growth that  has happened with  Growth in EMOTIONAL QUOTIENT  combined with our inbuilt INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENT (which is a natural  one)....
By increase in mental abilities  and reaching a career  height will still not ensure that Inner Growth which basically we humans seek....

We are gifted with intelligence  as a unique quality, emotions even animals have inbuilt  thus we aren't only here to increase the productivity of this IQ and only roll into comforts, we humans need to grow spiritually  by developing  HUMANE Qualities of letting go of minor issues, sharing, caring, non interfering  and non judgemental, etc to value human beings as spiritual  beings and raise our spiritual standards.... This is the ultimate  growth  we are looking for but we get stuck in only  visible  growths in terms of material  gains...

Lets grow within and change just happens as this  change is what  we can never have until we have matured souls.... God bless us all!!!

Coming next....

A kick start at developing  spiritual growth.....