True that!
What's the truth????
For each one of us TRUTH is what we are COMPLETELY CONVINCED with.....
No concept , no book, no individual can change the BELIEFS we live with... These beliefs are AT THAT MOMENT are our Truths....
BELIEFS are formed with stories we hear but strong ones are formed only with the experience we have had....
My recent encounters with my own self where I know my preferences better than what I knew few years back..... It was amazing to now have my beliefs rationalized with my own experiences and that gave me a different level of confidence with myself....
This true realization about self was mesmerizing and I never knew that how difficult will it be to let people around me introduce to this new self of mine I discovered.... After handling of complications around and still feeling great about being who I am... I was more in love with transparency .
The effects of truth that can be seen in our various relationships are:
1. Love :
People we felt who loved us and claimed to have fallen in love with us for what we are and not what we look like or can give in return can show some mind blowing changed unexpected reactions and the TRUE hidden colors automatically reflect out as... We stood by our true feelings which wasn't easy to be accepted as it was too true to be good... So lessons we learn as we portray our true self, however sweet it is, it is hard to find that, if we go against the demands of someone who claims to love us but fails to understand us and cannot respect your preferred choice at that moment....
Most relationships where agreement happened only to save someone from drifting apart isn't a long term relationship to cherish, relationship should be as matured to accept each other's choices at times and reveal discomforts to one another..
Friendship :
Friends are those who are aware of your drawbacks but still want you in their life for your positives.... As and when a changed true personality can encounter friends in general , your non conformity to many issues might crack the bond but its a great way to know who still stands by you to give you that individual space and respect to enhance your internal growth.... Friends who can make others puppets under the wraps of friendship are those who are far far away from their own self.....
The more I know myself, the more I understand others and that does bring about a turbulence in life but it surely helps me in a peaceful mental state....
Love each one for their individual qualities.... Its easy to live happily..
