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Sunday, September 18, 2016

Tough Love....???? Is very tough to have...

Tough love....
I read this term and found  very interesting... It is nothing  but selfless love  but TOUGH is something we can perceive either ways... But tough positively always means inner strength... Tolerance and self controlled  trait..... Basically  a graceful  warrior  quality...
I might sound a bit confused here  as terminology  like tough with a soft and divine emotion called love seems a little  difficult to understand but it is extremely appropriate after learning its indepth  meaning...
Tough , generally  means the withstanding capacity, the immunity  or the inner strength to fight  something  harmful....
Love is never harmful  unless, it becomes  selfish and obsessed...
I encounter so many people who in the name of love end up having  crazy expectations from the other or so deeply  get involved into that love that it turns into an obsession.... Either of these are not healthy and in fact they are harmful to them as well as their relationships...
Whether it is one sided or mutual... Love is love... It shouldn't  lose its Purity and essence under any situation.... The very thought of loving someone for expectations of reciprocation  is that  LOVE was offered as an object to trade with... If there exist mutual  love... Its beautiful.. But even then, it can turn mesmerizing  if it is only showered upon the beloved...
Human emotions  are very fragile... They do get low with non reciprocation  and non acceptance of love, also it might sometime  be mocked, over looked at but despite all this, if there still exists such love for someone... Then that  is TOUGH LOVE.... at some  point in life... Everyone has to undergo the test of examining their  love and this outcome is very very rare... As these difficult  times are the moments where one can understand whether their love can withstand the storms of others  moods, mindset and feelings....
Love  which can maintain its authenticity after undergoing  difficult  times  indeed emerges as TOUGH LOVE... where the recipient is never harmed only LOVED..... the giver might undergo traumatic phases to get toughened  but in the end it is a realization of TRUE , SPIRITUAL LOVE...
DIVINITY is in feeling the LOVE,
By giving your true self... Keep rising Above...