Law of Accident ( Universal law of life)

The core  seven laws of life  which I  will be addressing  in my current  seven blog  posts are those truths which function around  us, exist right here,   whether  we believe  in them  or  not.

Last post described  LAW OF CONTROL which says that  each one of us need to essentially  take the charge of our  lives  by management  of our minds  which can majorly help in controlling  our internal  state which can later help in smooth  functionality  of our lives.

LAW OF ACCIDENT, is on the other hand  inverse of LAW OF CONTROL .... To understand  this universal  law, to put it simply , to those who do not adopt  LAW OF CONTROL  are automatically  under the influence  of  LAW OF ACCIDENT...

LAW  OF ACCIDENT  means every time an event happens, we either feel like a beneficiary  or victimized  as an element  of that event.  This law gets in action if law of Control  isn't  adopted by  us.

To ease out the confusion, this is how the law works... While  life is all about  situations  and each single event or set of events are advantageous  to some and disastrous  for some, it is very important  to understand  that  if internal state of mind is well groomed to balance its emotional  baggage, it can seldom  or rarely  get affected by external  events but if we aren't  able to bring  our thoughts  under control we often are subject to  any environmental  impact  on our  lives.

To quote  an example here, people who have relationship  issues  generally  are seen blaming  their  partners  in failure  of their relationship  and conveniently  move on to next  level but  if they aren't  aware of their  own flaws there, they again would fall into similar  situations  and end up blaming  destiny, environment, etc for  their  condition. Thus, people  who  do not want to take  charge  of their lives  are often  found  blaming  people and situations  and over the period of time are victims  of extremely  low  self esteem to further deteriorate  their  lives.....

As we all understand  the importance  of high self esteem  in successfully  living our lives , also happiness  is the result  of this  trait  which needs to be maintained  and developed  by self improvement  at every step....

Take  care

Law of Control..... (universal law of life)

Here we go with our very first  LAW OF LIFE Called  ..... LAW OF CONTROL

The Law of Control states that we feel good about ourselves to the degree to which we feel that we are in control of our own lives. When we are physically, mentally and emotionally controlling the changes in our lives, then this naturally leads to higher levels of achievement, emotional satisfaction and a sense of fulfillment. Uncontrolled change on the other hand leads to stress, anxiety, frustration and misery — all of which signifies that our mind lacks discipline, order and structure.

Basically, as kids our nurturing, training  and education  should  essentially  make us quite capable  of taking complete  control  of ourselves. Control in physical  elements  are quite reachable  with  sound  financial  state but other  two elements  are most dicey as they  are not focused well while  we grow and often end up with loss of control with any unexpected  negative event.

Control  of self, is the best  way to  prevent  self from any damage and feel every moment  worth  living. Unfortunately, most  of us aren't  well equipped  with the techniques  to take complete  self control  and thus people with material  resources  and  some  also with  or without  material  power, having used their  given intellect  to manipulate  and conspire other elements  in environment  do establish  a control over them and feel winners  through out....

I would once envy such  people who  would control people around them to feel a sense of power, satisfaction  but as I  started  to search  the essentials  of peaceful  life, I  soon realized  that I  need not feel annoyed and disturbed if I  am unable to control my environment  as my life  purpose  and peace lies only in self control.

The  more I  started to take control  of my self, the more  sorted, confident and relaxed I  felt and my annoyance  towards those POWERFUL  people who all their  lives kept  controlling  environmental  factors  for  personal  benefits turned into sheer sympathy as they were still unaware of UNIVERSAL  POWERS and are under an illusion  that their each game  is played well.....

I see number  of relationships  where usually  women who generally  seek more power but are not equipped  to gain it by their own  feminine  personality  which  can selflessly  do enormous  work  WASTE THEIR  TIME while successfully  spending entire life faking love towards husband, friends, etc for material  power and keep misusing  their trust  till they have  to face  the cruel destiny decisions....

In my practice, at times, I find myself  in a tough situation  where  its so difficult  to get  people  to an understanding  of  this simple universal truth Take Control of  Self, not Over Others especially  not your loved  ones...

In nutshell, its hard but ULTIMATE to have our own mind, body, actions under our control rather than staying  stressed out as in my life, what should be my next move to control  environment ??? This is infact a very pitiable  condition  where ones happiness  is ONLY depended on others behaviour.....

LET'S TAKE COMPLETE CONTROL OF ONLY OURSELVES  TO EXPERIENCE  THAT  PEACE WE ALL ARE SEEKING.....